This is too funny not to share.
Tuesday, December 29, 2009
Bundled Up
Santa brought Dexter his first snowsuit. He was warm but nearly immobile (you'll notice that My Bologna was much faster when it came to "come to Mommy").
Saturday, December 26, 2009
Swingers
All I Want For Christmas Are My Two Top Molars
And that's exactly what Dexter got! For the last two nights Dexter has been waking us all up throughout the night. Not sick, not completely miserable, but not his normal sleep-through-the-night self. When he wasn't eating dinner with his usual gusto last night, I looked at his puffy gums and noticed the two top molars had begun to pop through.
Like Father, Like Son
Ben and I got Dexter his first real musical instrument this Christmas - a beautiful powder blue ukelele with a wooden bridge carved into the shape of a dolphin (special order courtesy of Flynn Guitars). Dexter was immediately enthralled and spent the rest of the day carrying it around while he explored other new toys. He didn't let it out of his sight, always wanting it within arm's reach should the urge to play music arise. And the urge did arise - again, and again, and again.
Merry Christmas
Somehow, Santa managed to get all the presents under the tree, fill the stockings, build a wooden rocking chair, and put together a swingset in the living room before Dexter woke up Christmas morning! Dexter was pretty amazed when he saw it all. He wasn't very interested in opening gifts but loved choosing gifts and handing them to us to open.
Thursday, December 24, 2009
Christmas Cookie
Surprise Gift
Grandma and Grampy Fowler sent us a box full of Christmas gifts and I couldn't stop laughing when I opened it and found Dexter's "surprise Christmas gift"! It was even funnier when Ben had no idea what it could be!!! I can't wait until Dexter sees it tomorrow morning (we haven't put any gifts under the tree yet for fear of premature gift unwrapping).
Wednesday, December 23, 2009
Sunday, December 20, 2009
Daddy is Mama
Dexter knows who you're talking about when you say "Daddy" or "Mommy" but in our house, Daddy and Mommy are both "Mama". When you ask Dexter, "where's Daddy?", he runs to Ben and says, "Mama!".
Saturday, December 12, 2009
One-Year Check-Up
Dexter had his one year check up yesterday and is on track in all developmental areas. The doctor was happy that we had been feeding him our table scraps, even Mexican, Mediterranean, Chinese, Indian, and Thai foods. She said he could now be introduced to nuts, eggs, and shellfish (and we should watch for allergic reactions, of course). He weighed only 24 lbs - Ben guessed he would be 27 lbs 4 oz and I guessed an even 26 lbs (even though he feels like he weighs 50!). At the same time, he had really sprouted up in height. He now measures 30 1/2 inches long (going from 50th percentile in height to almost 75th). He got a ton of shots (2 in the leg and 1 in the arm) and blood taken from his toe. The blood showed he has plenty of iron (no anemia) and we have to wait a few weeks to find out about the lead levels (which we hope there will NOT be plenty of).
Sunday, December 6, 2009
Saturday, December 5, 2009
At Ben's Request
Guilt
I have long believed that guilt is wasted emotional energy and have, until now, done a pretty good job of managing to not waste my emotional energy in this way. However, I'm finding it very difficult these days to cope with those creeping feelings of guilt. For the last couple of weeks I've been working very hard to reach a work deadline while preparing Dexter's first birthday party. I feel tremendous pressure to produce quality work for a lot of reasons, the most salient being that I take pride in my work (always have). That being said, I also very much want to provide Dexter the nurturing and love he deserves as well as truly experience motherhood so that we both have more than just photographs as memories of his early childhood. To top it off I went to the doctor yesterday and he made clear what I already knew - I need to take better care of myself. I'm at a loss as to how to balance these things and remain true to myself. I feel guilty when I'm at home working on the computer and Dexter is fussing for attention. I feel guilty when I have to shift my work schedule so that I can get Dexter to the doctor. And I feel guilty every time I choose coffee over a meal to get me through my day. I think the real fear for me now is realizing that this situation is not just a "crunch" that I can power through but that I am going to have to really figure out a way of living that more or less balances all of these things over the long haul. Wish me luck.
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