Saturday, May 24, 2014

Car Problems, Potty Problems

Coming home from work the other day, my car suddenly downshifted as I was easing off the gas on an exit ramp from the highway. After the stop light, it wouldn't shift out of first gear (it's an automatic). Ben and I took it to Car X - they don't do transmissions so they referred us to some transmission people down the street. Those folks did transmission work but didn't work on Volkwagens. We ended up taking it to a foreign car mechanic. When the called the next day, the news was not good. The transmission needs to be replaced or rebuilt and the cost to do the work would be just about as much as the car is worth. When we went to pick it up, I asked how long they thought it would last ("could be a month, could be a year"). Since I'm in the last month or so of my coursework for my doctoral program and have ZERO time to be dealing with a new car search and all the insurance and registration paperwork, I was hopeful that this car would get me through this quarter at school. "Tell me this," I said, "When it finally stops working for good will there be any explosions or fire?" "No," the mechanic replied, "it will just stop running." "Give me the keys. We're gonna see how long this thing lasts." And with that, we were out the door.

The next day, Ben noticed a crack in the porcelain base of our toilet. Water was leaking out so fixing this became the immediate priority. Ben and Dex picked out a new toilet at Menards and Ben scheduled the plumber to come out the next day to install the new toilet. Before the plumber came, Dex realized that installing the new toilet meant that the old toilet had to go somewhere. He wanted to keep it. I told him that was not an option. He had lots of suggestions for where in the house we could keep it and how we could repurpose it. When I nixed those ideas, his anxiety about where the toilet would go and how he would "remember" this toilet came flooding out.

I eased his fears about letting go of the old toilet by suggesting he take pictures of it so he could "always remember it." He took about a dozen different shots of this potty.

Thursday, May 22, 2014

Kim and Dylan Come to Town (and I Don't Get a Picture with Them!)

Elissa was gracious enough to have a small dinner party when Kim and Dylan made a recent visit to Chicago. Kim brought Boston T-shirts for Dex and Ian (with plenty of room to grow into!).


Elissa made a fabulous meal (as always!). The boys joined Elissa, Jason, Kim, Dylan, Julie, Bill, Ben, and me at the dinner table.
The boys played together wonderfully while the adults enjoyed some conversation and laughs.
Ian and Dex got to ride on Jason's feet before we left for the night. That's what Jason gets for positioning himself near the front door.






I'm happy I got some cool pictures of the boys but am sad that I didn't get any of the adults! Elissa, please send me a copy of the group photo you took.

Wednesday, May 21, 2014

Graduation Afterparty

Free-for-all balloon fall!

 Checking out his graduation gift bag.
 Binoculars!
Dex's "stand in" sitting with Maddy while he was busy running around with his balloon. Eventually he sat down and enjoyed some civilized conversation.

Saturday, May 17, 2014

Making the Rounds

Dex is going to be a wonderful cocktail party guest someday - he excelled at working the crowd during the pre-K "Shake Hands with Friends" finale. Definitely NOT a wallflower.

Happy Dance

The children performed a lot of songs during the graduation ceremony 
but my favorite was the performance of Pharrell's "Happy".
Just like his Daddy, Dexy laid it down during the solo!

"Where Are the Stairs?"

Dex was a little confused but he made it!